Three times past his door without entering
In thirteen years of flood control, Yu passed his own home several times without going in — one time, it is said, his wife of the Tushan clan had just given birth to their son Qi, and the infant’s cry could be heard through the wall. Retold across the ages, this detail became the first political model of "putting the public above the private": a ruler’s legitimacy comes from bearing hardship for the community, not from bloodline itself.